When you love someone, you just do. There are no maybes, no buts, and no whys.
I'm the girl your ex girlfriend will hate, your mom will love, and that you will never forget.
Friday, July 29, 2011
The best thing in life is finding someone who knows all of your mistakes & weaknesses and still thinks you're completely amazing.
Leia Mais…Time can heal a broken heart, but time can also break a waiting heart.
Missing you is my hobby, caring for you is my job, make you happy is my duty, and loving you is my life.
When we pray, God hears more than we say, answers more than we ask, gives more than we imagine... in HIS own time & HIS own way.
Go for someone who is not only proud to have you, but will also take every risk and chance just to be with you.
Thursday, July 28, 2011
this one is a bit timely
You may not be the ONLY reason why I smile, but you're definitely one of my favorites.
Leia Mais…Babe, you stole my heart, so I'm planning revenge. I'm gonna take your last name.. (:
Leia Mais…Wednesday, July 27, 2011
Can you hear those footsteps behind you? That's not me running after you...that's karma catching up to you.
I want a person who comes into my life by accident, and stays on purpose.
Go ahead and push me away and then wonder why I'm not there when you change your mind.
A true friend cares like a mom, scolds like a dad, teases like a sister, irritates like a brother, and loves more than a lover.
My favorite time of the day is when I first wake up in the morning during those 6 seconds before my life catches up & hits me.
So you're over me? Cool. But when you see me with someone else, don't you dare come running back to me.
The person you were is gone. The person you will be is a stranger. But the person you are is what matters.
Sometimes what you want isn't always what you get, but in the end what you get is so much better than what you wanted.
If you don't like my words, don't listen. If you don't like my appearance, don't look. If you don't like my actions, turn your head.
Wanna know a secret? Somebody out there can't stop thinking about you. You are beautiful. Don't ever believe differently.
So I'm single with no intentions of looking for a guy. This time, I'm letting him find me.
I hate it when you talk to someone you haven't talked to in forever and you know things won't ever be the same again.
When people tell you you've changed, it's only because you stopped acting the way they want you to act.
We can pretend that things don't bother us, but we all know that even the smallest thing could make us fall apart.
Eventually, one of two things will happen. He will realize you're worth it, or you'll realize that he isn't.
I'm not trying to say I don't want you, cause I do. But I'm done chasing after you.
I hope you choke on all the lies you tell; yet again, it's kinda hard to swallow that much bullshit.
One day, you're going to look back,and think, "Damn, that girl really did love me..."
If you're not working on trying to be mine, then you shouldn't be worrying about who's consuming my spare time.
If a girl can put up with you through your worst days, and still stick with you and your mistakes, then you shouldn't let her go.
She straightens her hair, puts on her eyeliner, glosses her lips & takes one last look in the mirror, all for the boy who will never care.
Life is too precious to worry about stupid things. Have fun and fall in love. Regret nothing and don't let people bring you down.
When you continue to ignore someone, you're teaching them how to live a happy life without you.
That awkward moment when someone asks you what's wrong and they're the problem.
Before I met you, I didn't know what it was like to look at someone and smile for no reason at all.
If you leave without a reason, don't come back with an excuse.
Every girl has that one guy she goes back to, heartbreak after heartbreak, & nobody knows why, not even her. She just can't let go.
Lesson learned: don’t place your happiness in someone else’s hands, because once they’re gone, so is your happiness.
From this point on, I'm going to treat people exactly how they treat me. Some should be glad. Others should be scared.
Sometimes the people we've known for a short amount of time have the biggest impact on our lives, even more than those we've known forever.
I swore I needed you. Well consider them lies, because baby here I am without you and I survived.
I can fake a smile when I feel horrible. I can pretend to be happy. I can do a lot, but what I can't do is pretend that I don't love you.
People may hate you for being different and not living by society's standards, but deep down, they wish they had the courage to do the same.
I'm the girl that always has her phone in her hands, headphones in her ears and that one guy on her mind.
You meet thousands of people and none of them really touch you, then you meet one person, and your life is changed forever.
Remember when I asked for your opinion? Yeah neither do I.
I'm currently making some changes in my life. If you don't hear from me anymore, you're probably one of them.
I love him but I can't show it, want him but he can't know it, need him but I know it’ll never be, if only he needed me.
Besides God, what should I fear? The only person who could stop me is that chick in the mirror.
When you think you're not happy with your life, always think that someone is happy simply because you exist.
You know why it's hard to be happy? Because you find it hard to let go of the things that make you sad.
Don't push your relationship with a person too hard. If it's meant to be, it'll happen.
Strangers think I'm quiet. My friends think I'm out-going. But only my BEST friends know that I'm completely insane.
I never get jealous when I see my ex with someone else, because my parents always taught me to give my used toys to the less fortunate.
She's got a smile on her face and a 'screw you' attitude, because from this day on, she's living life for herself.
I hate when you tell me you miss me, but you don't make an effort to talk to me. If you really missed me, you'd do something about it.
Don't leave something good to see if you can find better, because once you realize you had the best, the best found better.
When your ex says "You will never find anyone like me" you reply, "That's the point, duh."
Never get too attached to anyone because attachments leads to expectations and expectations leads to disappointments.
It's hard to swim in a world so shallow.
It's funny how I'm good at giving advice to others, but when it comes to helping myself, I don't know what to do.
I'm diagnosed as being in love. The medicine is you. The addiction is awesome. The withdrawal is hell.
If two people are meant to be together, eventually they'll find their way back to each other.
Don't judge me based on YOUR perception, your jealousy or what you would do. I don't live my life for you.
Some ppl are strong because they know what it's like to be weak, & keep their guard up bc they know what it's like to cry in their sleep.
If people are talking behind your back, congratulations. It means you're far in front.
Sometimes you just need to distance yourself from people. If they care, they'll notice. If they don't, you know where you stand with them.
So from now on when you think of me, just remember that I could have been the best thing you ever had.
You tell yourself not to think about him, yet you still do and secretly you're wondering if he does too.
I'm moving on. No more waiting, no more hurt. If you wanted me, you could've had me, but you didn't. You blew your chance.
Don't ever judge anyone. You don't know their story and what's really going on. A smile can hide so much.
I can be a lover, a hater, a fighter, a player, but that just ain't my style. I'm nothing but a mystery with a pretty smile.
New memories, new mistakes, new heartaches, new people, new tears, new laughs, new year.
Everyone comes into your life for a reason; some good, some bad. They shape, form and break us. But in the end they make us who we are.
The only exercise some people ever get is running their mouths, jumping to conclusions and pushing their luck.
It's like every time something actually goes right in my life, someone somewhere says, "Oh she looks happy, time to mess it up."
I cant promise u a perfect relationship without arguments and differences. However I can promise you as long as you're trying, I'm staying.
Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness. Laugh when you can, apologize when you should, and let go of what you can't change.
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Carrot, Egg or Coffee Bean?
You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again.
A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed that as one problem was solved, a new one arose.
Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to a boil. In the first, she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil, without saying a word.
In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She then pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.
Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me, what do you see?"
"Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.
She brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. She then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, she asked her to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma.
The daughter then asked, "What does it mean, Mother?"
Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity -- boiling water -- but each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior. But, after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.
"Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?"
Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity? Do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?
Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and a hardened heart?
Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor of your life. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you. When the hours are the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate to another level?
How do you handle adversity? Are you changed by your surroundings or do you bring life, flavor, to them?
ARE YOU A CARROT, AN EGG, OR A COFFEE BEAN?
~ Author Unknown ~
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Hating is for the weak, loving is for the strong. It takes more to love someone who did you wrong than it does to hate them.
Qualities and morals in a woman are way better than appearance.
If that was me, you wouldn't have gotten hurt.
We only see two things in people; what we want to see, and what they want to show us.
To change the heart of a man, it takes just one glance from a woman.
As time goes on, you learn that the happiest people around you are secretly suffering.
“You look pretty today!”…Was I ugly yesterday?
Numbing the pain for a while will make it worse when you finally feel it.
I like when someone opens up to me. It feels like they are trusting me.
If I wanted your opinion I would have asked...
I'm not picky, I just don't settle for less than I deserve.
You have nothing important to share about your life, so instead you share things about mine.
If you're not working on trying to be mine, then you shouldn't be worrying about who's consuming my spare time.
People will choose to blame their circumstances on fate or bad luck. Very few will admit it's mainly the choices they have made.
The irony of wanting to be different? You inevitably end up like everybody else.
I still love you, that's a fact. But a million apologies can't bring me back.
Unfortunately, people have to make the mistake, before the realize they made one.
All a girl wants is someone that wants her back.
Words without actions are meaningless, but actions without words are confusing.
The past cannot be changed, forgotten, edited, or erased...it can only be accepted.
Reading old conversations with you make me realize how much has changed. I miss you, or at least the person I knew.
Be happy in front of people who don't like you, it kills them.
Dear Girls, just 'cause it seems like a guy likes you, doesn't mean he does. Some guys flirt naturally & don't mean to lead you on.
Truth was not designed to hurt. It only hurts when we deny it is.
When people cut you down or talk behind your back, remember, they took time out of their pathetic lives to think about you.
Hold your head up high gorgeous, because there are people that would KILL to see you fall.
There's always going to be that girl who chooses her boyfriend over her best friend.
The best revenge is living a successful, good life, and just being happy.
Cheer up. He's not worth it, he's only a boy. The world doesn't revolve around him. You don't need him to be happy.
Two words that can break a girl's heart..."just friends".
Don't judge my journey until you have walked it.
A girl doesn't need anyone who doesn't need her.
You can't have a better tomorrow if you're thinking about yesterday all the time.
When a girl says, "I'm done" it really means, "fight for me".
Jealousy is just a lack of self confidence.
I live in a world full of people pretending to be something they're not.
I'm tired of being the girl who falls head over heels in love with the guy who barely even stumbles.
The best feeling in the world is knowing you actually mean something to somebody.
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Doesn't it suck when someone you know turns into someone you knew?
That's funny. You say you hate the guy who broke your heart, but when he comes running back to you, you have your arms wide open.
God knows how much we can handle. So, if you think you're weak, you're not. 'Cause problems are for the strong. Giving up is for the weak.
True strength is keeping it together when everyone would understand if you fell apart.
Same old story. Boy meets girl, and she falls so much harder than him.
Behind every girl's favorite song is an untold story.
Life is easy. We just insist on making it complicated.
When you told me you loved me I almost didn't believe it and now I know my first instinct was right.
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If you ever lose my trust, you probably will never get it back. And even if you did, things will never be the same.
Remember, you can't reach what's in front of you until you let go of what's behind you. Move forward without looking back.
Even a good player could someday be a toy of a better player. The game is called Karma.
We survive by remembering, but sometimes we survive by forgetting.
God understands our prayers even when we can't find the words to say them.
Dear heart, please stop getting involved in everything. Your job is to pump blood, that's it...
Saturday, July 9, 2011
It sucks when you know that you need to let go, but you can't, because you're still waiting for the impossible to happen.
Leia Mais…Isn't it funny how they always want to be friends right after they break your heart?
Leia Mais…Being single does not mean no one wants you...it just means that God is busy writing your love story...
Leia Mais…The worst feeling sometimes is not being lonely, but being forgotten by someone you would never forget.
Leia Mais…There's no need to rush. If something's meant to be, it'll happen. In the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason.
Leia Mais…A real man doesn't count how many girls he had in his life, but how many times he resisted girls for the woman he really loves.
Leia Mais…It takes time to understand a girl. But if she's really worth it, you'd take time to try figure her out.
Leia Mais…It hurts the worst when the person that made you feel so special yesterday, makes you feel so unwanted today.
Leia Mais…Don't cry over the past, it's gone. Don't stress about the future, it hasn't arrived. Live in the present and make it beautiful.
Leia Mais…Once you find happiness in this cruel world, there's always someone trying to take it away.
Leia Mais…
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